Men commit when they fall in love with you.
No man wants to be with the wrong woman, so he’ll make sure the relationship is right.
That’s a statement that may seem obvious, but some women don’t understand why their man doesn’t feel the same way they do.
So what makes a man commit and fall in love?
There are a lot of factors that could contribute to a man committing and falling in love with a woman.
However, some of these factors are similar and in this post, I’ll be addressing how a man commits and fall in love with a woman’s physical appearance and personality.
What Makes A Man Commit And Fall In Love
1. He wants to be your hero
You’ve probably heard that guys like the chase.
But in reality, men love it when you openly show how much you desire and respect them.
In fact, this is the one thing that makes a man want to commit for life.
A man wants to feel like he can protect you, take care of you and provide for you.
Men want to feel needed and desired by their woman.
He wants to be your hero regardless of what crisis has come your way or how bad things may seem at the moment.
He wants to help fix problems with his woman, whether it’s a flat tire on her car or an issue with her family members.
A man wants to help take care of his woman because he loves her and doesn’t want anything bad happening in her life; he hopes she doesn’t have any problems while she’s with him, but if she does he’ll be there 100% for her no matter what!
2. You are cool, smart, and confident
You are cool and confident.
You don’t worry too much about what other people think of you or say about you.
You can take criticism from your friends or family without letting it affect you in a negative way.
You are not boring and predictable.
You don’t always do the same things all of the time, even if they have worked for you in the past.
You don’t give up on what you want just to keep other people happy.
You know that if someone wants something different than you, they can go out and achieve it in their own life, instead of trying to convince you to change yours so that theirs will be easier to achieve, too.
You aren’t afraid to try new things – even if they scare you at first!
3. You pick up on the little things
“If you love someone, you listen to them.”
When you do this, you show him that he can trust you and that what he says matters to you.
He’ll start doing the same for you.
And then suddenly, there’s a deep connection between the two of you.
He’ll feel appreciated and valued by being heard.
That’s when he opens his heart to loving someone else… and only then can he fall in love with her.
As a result of listening, he also feels safe around her, because she has earned his trust by paying attention enough to know what is important to him and not just what she wants from him.
Not only does this make him more likely to fall in love with her, but it will make him want more than anything else in life be hers forever too!
4. You’re his rock, but you don’t smother him
It’s the natural instinct of all men to want a woman who they believe is always there for them and support them emotionally.
A guy wants to feel like he’s with a “cool girl” who is emotionally secure, is happy on her own, but also loves having him around.
He needs to know that you are always going to be his rock, but at the same time, he still needs space in the relationship so he can feel like a man.
If you give him too much space or make him think that you aren’t interested in spending time with him or being affectionate towards him e.g. because you are too busy or don’t answer his texts right away, then this will make him feel as though he doesn’t need you very much and that you won’t be there for him if he ever really needs you.
By keeping your cool when around other women and letting your man initiate contact with you from time to time e.g. calling/texting or arranging meet ups rather than contacting him constantly, will give him the sense of freedom from responsibility that he needs in order to fully commit himself to loving and respecting only one woman which is you.
Learn to balance it all while being a woman.
5. You can talk about anything
You can talk about anything.
He loves you for who you are, not for what you know or what you’ve done.
He likes the way you smile, the way your nose scrunches up when you laugh, and how your eyes light up when we’re together.
You don’t have to be an expert in everything, but he does like it when you show that there’s more to life than just survival.
So he’s most likely going to enjoy talking with a woman who is curious about the world around her and interested in having new experiences or learning about new things.
If there happens to be something that you are very passionate about—such as a particular hobby or interest—telling him all about it will help him get to know and understand more of who you are.
In turn, telling him what makes YOU come alive will help him open up and be vulnerable with his feelings as well!
6. He feels more important when he’s with you
Think about how you feel when your significant other is happy with you.
It makes you feel like a million bucks, right?
You want to live up to their expectations and make them proud.
Well, men feel the exact same way.
Men in long-term relationships are happier when they think their partner values and appreciate their efforts.
Let him know that you think he’s awesome, and he’ll be more likely to reciprocate the sentiment.
A man who knows his girlfriend or wife appreciates how hard he works is going to be happier and more willing to commit to sustaining the relationship.
7. You make him feel good about himself
If you’re wondering what makes a man commit and fall in love, the answer is simple: you.
Do you make him feel good about himself?
If so, he’ll want to be around you more and more.
If a guy feels like the world is better when you’re in it, he’ll always want to be with you.
This doesn’t mean that you have to lavish praise on him all the time.
In fact, your adoration should be reserved for special occasions, or else he’ll get used to hearing it and it will lose its meaning.
Instead of telling him flat-out that he’s sexy and amazing, try giving him a compliment that means something to him.
Compliments should always be sincere—if they aren’t, your guy will pick up on it immediately and feel insecure about himself.
How do you give a sincere compliment?
Well, if his favorite movie is Star Wars and he knows every line from Episode IV by heart, tell him how much you enjoy watching him quote Luke Skywalker’s dialogue with such precision.
This shows him that not only are you paying attention when he speaks—you care about what he says, too.
8. Your differences complement each other
When it comes to differences, you probably know that opposites attract.
That’s because when an introvert and extroverts get together, they bring out the best in each other.
Opposites attract is a known saying but what makes that attraction stick?
What nurtures two people through the depression, stress and loss of life?
Through all the ups and downs?
Falling in love is a beautiful thing, but it can also be painful and confusing.
Most of us have been there: you’re getting really serious with someone, you think they might be the one… but then they pull away, leaving you feeling abandoned, exasperated, and upset.
If this sounds like you, hang in there.
It’s important to remember that relationships are hard sometimes.
But there are things you can do to keep them strong and healthy.
The most important thing is to remember that your partner isn’t someone who will just agree with everything you say or think—and they shouldn’t be.
In fact, if you’re looking for someone whose beliefs are exactly like yours… well, good luck finding that person.
A healthy relationship is all about complementing each other’s differences.
Seeing eye-to-eye on everything is not what makes a man commit and fall in love.
Instead, those differences can help enrich your relationship by giving it balance and insight into different perspectives.
So don’t try to change your significant other; instead, learn from their points of view and use their insights as a way to grow together.
9. You make him better at what he does for a living
You can help him by being a sounding board.
When you are open, he is more likely to share his work-related stresses with you because he knows that you want him to succeed and that it’s important to you.
This means that he will also ask for your advice and input on his business ideas and projects because he trusts that what you say won’t be ignored or brushed off.
When your man asks for your advice or opinion about his work, it’s a good sign that there is at least some level of interest in the relationship from him.
When a man is falling in love, he tends to unconsciously do whatever possible to make sure that his woman feels loved and appreciated.
So, when he asks you for female perspective on important things in his life which includes work, it’s usually because he wants to impress upon you how much faith and trust he has in your ability as a partner.
10. You include him in your plans… and you include some of his, too
Another way to help him see you as a full person is to tell him about your lifestyle and the things you enjoy.
Let him know that your life is a complete picture, with lots of people and interests in it, but he’s more than welcome to be part of it if he wants.
Don’t just expect him to drop his life for yours. Including him in some of your plans makes him feel like he is important to you, but still lets both of you have time for yourselves as individuals.
Also show that you are open-minded by being equally interested in hearing his ideas and plans as well.
He may have a dream vacation planned or an amazing concert coming up; let him know that you want to take part in these things, too.
11. People tell him how lucky he is to have you and he agrees with them
People tell him how lucky he is to have you and he agrees with them.
If other people are telling him that you’re great, it shows that not only are you a good person, but that you also look like a good person as well.
This means other people want to be around you and will probably think highly of him because they know he’s with someone as wonderful as you.
When people tell him how lucky he is to have a woman like you in his life, he sees just how much everyone likes and respects who you are.
This makes him feel awesome about himself because he knows that anyone would love to be with a woman like yourself.
It doesn’t make him feel lucky, it makes him feel like he’s got it made!
12. You make him feel needed as well as respected
Guys like to feel like they have a woman who is strong and has her own life but they also like to be needed as well as respected.
When you make a man feel needed, respected, and appreciated, he will be more likely to commit to you.
Men want to feel like they can protect and provide for their loved ones.
When you show a man that you can take care of yourself without him, his protective instincts will kick in and he will feel the need to help you out.
When you show a man that you don’t need him, he may not feel like he needs to stick around to keep helping you out anymore.
For example, if there are certain tasks that your man would naturally enjoy doing around the house before your relationship started, but now feels like it’s his job instead of something he enjoys or willingly chooses to do, he may start feeling resentful and not want to continue doing them.
By expressing gratitude for what he does around the house, even if it’s something as simple as taking out the trash, your man will feel appreciated and more inclined to continue helping out with household chores.
Ultimately, a strong relationship is one where both parties respect each other and the differences that make them who they are.
It’s about being who you are and letting him be who he is.
At the end of the day, it’s about finding someone to have your back like no one else can.
If you find yourself with a guy you feel that way about – don’t hesitate to take a chance on yourself and give it a try as long as you know he is the one for you.
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